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Overcome the fear of public speaking

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"Love the moment, and the energy of that moment will spread beyond all boundaries."
--  Corita Kent
 

 

 

I never promised you anything ...

One month down and we are already at February.  (I know, that was quick)!
 
Just stop for a moment and think back to those business goals, work targets, KPI's, and personal aspirations (lose weight, get fit, learn something new, etc.) that you set at the beginning of 2006 (or the end of 2005).   Think about those visions of success, profits and happiness you saw yourself achieving this year.
 
Are you still on track?
...or have you broken some of those promises already?
"Just a moment", I hear your say "I never *promised* that I would achieve them, I just committed to trying my best.  I didn't break any promises, I just got caught up in other things"
 
 
To me, this is an excuse.
It is a habit of allowing yourself to not stick to your targets
because you lose focus when under pressure.
 
 
Am I being a little harsh?    Perhaps.
Am I being truthful and accurate?   Absolutely!  Article continues

 

GETTING FROM HERE TO THERE
By Dr. John C. Maxwell 

When I travel, my daily agenda is always full.

I don't get up late, linger over breakfast, and then start meandering down one country road after another, just to see where they might lead. I'm up early, ready to cram as much into each day as I possibly can. I know exactly where I want to go and, map in hand, I know how to get there.

Come to think of it, that's also how I approach life. I can't just let life happen to me. I need a road map that shows me how to get from where I am now to where I want to be in the future. Of course, if I want to be successful, I can't just leave the roadmap in the glove box. I have to follow it. Diligently.

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More Power In Your Little Finger....
By: Liz Ryan

Very often, WorldWIT members listen to our radio interviews, and write to me to say "How does one achieve all that? Do you have suggestions for gaining influence, rising in the world, and becoming powerful?" The answer is yes - I do. In fact, finding one's personal power is one of my favorite topics.  Article continues

 

The Top Six Ways to Stay Motivated by Chris Widener

I receive many emails from people that basically ask the same question: How can I keep myself motivated long term? This seems to be quite a common dilemma for many people so I want to address it because it can be done! Here are my tips for staying motivated:  Article continues

 

Get Out of Town! 5 Tips for Lightening Your Workload So You Can Take a Vacation

You work hard. You covet every day of vacation you're entitled to. So why aren't you using them? According to Expedia.com's annual "Vacation Depravation" survey, nearly one-third of Americans do not always take their vacation days. In fact, Americans are likely to give back more than 421 million unused vacation days in 2005.

Before blaming your job for forcing you to surrender your precious time off, take a look at your own habits at work and home. The best way ensure that you don't forego a single well-deserved day on the beach, on the slopes or just relaxing at home, is to increase your personal productivity. By tweaking the way you work and structure your day, you can get more done in less time and feel good about it. Best of all, you will never have to say no to a vacation again. Here's your five-step game plan for seizing control of your time and boosting your personal productivity:

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In a Bad Spot? Try Mindfulness

Mindfulness is a not a concept most of us are likely to encounter at work. This excerpt from the new book Resonant Leadership describes how self-awareness can help you stay calm in a crisis.

Navigating the unknown
When dealing with a crisis or the unknown, we simply cannot predict what is to come. It takes confidence and optimism to let go of preconceived notions while also studiously opening oneself to new information and solutions. The process of opening up can make us feel vulnerable, even afraid. Many leaders simply shut down in order to avoid this kind of uneasiness. Many also shut down to prove to people around them that they are decisive and know what to do (even when they do not). Avoiding openness—and vulnerability—results in a narrow focus and can ultimately cause you to slip into mindlessness.

Most of us experience times when it seems easier to give up what we believe, step away from our principles and go along with the status quo. Sometimes, behaving in the politically correct way is a lot easier than staying true to ourselves. Then it becomes all too easy for people to demonstrate values only when someone is watching them or it is convenient. Sometimes we feel vulnerable simply because no one seems to see things as we do, and no one else seems to have the courage to stick it out and do the right thing. When we feel like this, it is easy to lose confidence in ourselves, to question whether in fact we are doing the right thing or just being stubborn. Knowing where your personal line is, and also having people around you who share your values, whom you can trust and talk to, makes a huge difference.

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5 Ways to Protect Your Most Essential Commodity

Not to long ago I was at a leadership conference where one of the keynotes, Suzanne de Passe of Motown Productions, talked about protecting the entrepreneurs’ greatest commodity – our energy. Suzanne’s key comment was “how you spend your energy is how you measure your success.”

Boy did that strike a cord!

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Behind the Magic

How do stellar sellers work their magic? From the first cold call to closing the deal, discover the top sales secrets of some seriously successful salespeople.
Entrepreneur magazine - August 2005
By Chris Penttila

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Is Your Business Safe From Internet Security Threats?

Spyware, viruses and hacker attacks can be devastating to small businesses. Here's how to protect your company from internet security threats.

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 Pharming traps

It's a Trap!
Watch your step--pharming scams are lurking around every corner.
Entrepreneur magazine - August 2005
By Mike Hogan

Somebody in Brunei Darussalam has it in for you. And you aren't making friends in Belarus or Nicaragua, either. Even Bobby Fisher can catch a break in Iceland--but you can't.

Network security company Netcraft has identified these as some of the exotic locales most likely to broadcast those phishing e-mails that try to scare you and your customers into giving up bank, PayPal or other sensitive information. Servers in those locations also host the copycat web pages used in a scary variation on phishing--pharming.  Article continues

Assertiveness. how do you rate?

Do you wish you had the confidence to speak your mind? 

Do you feel you have the respect of your family and co-workers?

Would you like to improve your relationships?

Follow this series of articles to find your personal interaction habits and how you can modify them to create effective communication.

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GOOD THINKING

By John C. Maxwell

If you watched the swimming events at the 2004 Olympics last summer, you probably observed the incredible focus the medalists demonstrated. Sure, they're strong and fast. But when hundredths - maybe even thousandths - of a second are all that separate the winners from the losers, it's obvious that something besides strength and speed is at work.

A comment by Flip Darr, a former collegiate swimming coach who played a part in training eight Olympic medallists, sheds some light on what that critical ingredient might be. "I felt in my coaching career that if I would work on [the swimmers'] head[s], their bodies would come along," he said. "A lot of coaches work on their bodies and then at the last moment try to do their heads. The thing is, if they are working with their heads all the time, and working with their head over the body, mind over matter, they will have more confidence when they walk up to the block."

What a great illustration of the value of good thinking. Athletic ability is important, but preparing for the biggest race of one's life is as much mental as it is physical - if not more so. As Bill MacCartney, the former head football coach at the University of Colorado, once told me, "Mental is to physical what four is to one."

That's a powerful argument in the case for good thinking - on the football field, as well as in your office at work. The specific thoughts that increase your effectiveness as a leader might not be the same as those required for an Olympic medal, but the overall commitment to thinking is identical. Click here to read the complete article

 

What Artists Know About Leadership

 

You don't need to be able to draw a straight line in order to use the tools and spirit of creativity for your next leadership challenge. An excerpt from the new book Leadership Can Be Taught.

 

The phrase "the art of leadership" is certainly well worn. But consciously recognizing the practice of leadership as artistry has received little attention.1 For now, I simply suggest that art, artist, and artistry be given a more prominent place within the lexicon of leadership theory and practice.

Affirmation and resistance
The image of artist, cast as a metaphor for those who provide acts of leadership, immediately evokes two primary responses—affirmation and resistance. Those who think of themselves as artists in the conventional sense of the word—for example, painters, sculptors, musicians, writers, architects, photographers, and some athletes and gardeners—may pick up the metaphor with ready enthusiasm, recognizing that incorporating their artist-self into their practice of leadership opens into a horizon of powerful possibilities. But those who suffered through their last required art project in school, or who hold the stereotype of an artist as nonrational, asocial, marginal...  Article continues

Exploiting the Gender Gap

Carlsbad, Calif. — Nothing disturbs working women more than the statistics often mentioned on Labor Day showing that they are paid only 76 cents to men's dollar for the same work. If that were the whole story, it should disturb all of us; like many men, I have two daughters and a wife in the work force.

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Women at the Top

It started, as most discussions of this kind do, with a common lament: "How do we keep highly skilled, talented women executives from opting out of the workforce?" It ended with the four women charged with commenting on this nagging dilemma talking about the need for more flexible schedules. Yes, we hear that a lot, not only in the executive ranks, but in all walks of the work life. We hear it constantly. We hear it from women and we hear it from men.

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In the same sense...
 * When you focus on the negative aspects of other people, they tend to bother you more often.
 * When you focus on the negative aspects of your business/work, you tend to feel more   
   uptight, annoyed or stressed.

It is not that people, work or life bothers us.  Rather, it is the negative aspects of people, work or life that we focus on that tend to bother us.
 
Becoming resilient to pressure is a choice.
How fast you bounce back from stress, pressure and burnout is a choice.

   > Question: So, how do you choose to be resilient?
   > Answer: By practicing gratitude

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Power Sleep

The month of June can be a frantic time for many businesses, being the end of financial year, and for many, working longer hours just to get everything done on time.

Over the last few weeks, I have noticed that many people in my seminars are feeling somewhat 'burnt out' and saying 'I would love to have a few days off to just catch up on sleep'

The truth is that, unless you allow your body to get good sleep, your body cannot bounce back fast from pressure and working long hours.  Without the right amount of rest, your body will eventually break.

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Great Time Management Advice!

by Jim Rohn

I often talk in my seminars about the importance of time and time management -- how rich people and poor people both have the same amount of time every day - 24 hours (which by the way, I find fascinating).

This week, as we continue to celebrate the One-Year Anniversary of the 2004 Weekend Event, I want to share with you four great time management ideas we've excerpted from the 2004 Event Speaker Round Table Session - Enjoy!

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Glossy Rut-Buster

 
From Worthwhile - by Kate Yandoh

"Even though the magazine addict in me perked up with glee after reading this tip from Daniel Pink's A Whole New Mind, I hadn't put it into action until just now. It's simple. Go pick up five magazines that you've never heard of in areas you've never chosen to read about. Flip through at will, maybe tear out some images or articles that speak to you in some way, then watch for breakthroughs.

Wow. Courtesy of Aquarium USA, Sing Out! Folk Music, Grassroots Motorsports, Modern Drummer, and Wooden Boat, some new thoughts about a web project, seeds for a future blog postings, a few new words and who knows what else are mine. Even if you're not wrestling with a particular form of block or working on a project, spending just an hour doing this can make some creative connections and furnish a very economical - and portable- brain break."

Exercise adds years to life and improves quality, researchers say

Exercise is a lot like spinach -- everybody knows it's good for you; yet many people still avoid it, forgoing its potential health benefits.

But researchers at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign who study the effects of exercise on aging point to new findings that may inspire people to get up, get out and get moving on a regular basis. The research team, led by kinesiology professor Edward McAuley, found that previously sedentary seniors who incorporated exercise into their lifestyles not only improved physical function, but experienced psychological benefits as well.

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7 Keys for Joyful Living

by Chris Widener

Here are some thoughts for finding and experiencing joy in your life. If there were one thing I could wish upon my family, friends and the readers of this Ezine, it would be joy in everything they do!

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Cycles of sleeping and waking with the Doze family

Check out the dynamic 3D animations of the Doze family members depicting effects of age and such sleep and alertness influences as shift work, caffeine, alcohol, stress and "Monday morning blues" and watch as the control panel demonstrates several interrelated behavioural and internal systems that help guide the user through the learning process.

 

The Fullness Factor™

ND's Fullness Factor™ can help you consume fewer Calories without feeling hungry...

Understanding Hunger and Satiety

The Fullness Factor - A Better Predictor of Satiety

Comparing the Fullness Factor to the Glycemic Index

Fullness Factors for Common Foods

Fullness Factors for Mixed Meals

Fullness Factor Dieting

Satiety References

Web Content: Knowing Whether It’s to Sell You or Inform You
by Reid Goldsborough

When you pick up a magazine or newspaper, you want to know whether what you’re reading was written to inform you or to sell you. It has long been a publishing tradition to clearly separate editorial content from advertising material. Both have their purpose and their usefulness, but both have their place.

The same principle applies to the brave new world of online publishing, although norms and practices are still emerging. This applies equally to Web pages and to search engines (the technology that often gets people to Web pages).  Article continues

CONNECTING THE DOTS

LOVE & LOSS

DEATH

Stanford Report, June 14, 2005-08-05

'You've got to find what you love,' Jobs says

This is the text of the Commencement address by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, delivered on June 12, 2005.

I am honoured to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I've ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That's it. No big deal. Just three stories.    Article continues

 

Scorched-Earth Networking
 
Are you burning the very people you're trying to impress? Find out how not to be the networker no one wants to do business with.

By Ivan Misner

 
In my more than two decades of developing business networks and coaching networkers, I've noticed some very different styles of networking. One of these styles, which results in the ground smoking wherever these networkers tread, I call "scorched earth networking." Let's talk a little about this style, so you understand how important it is to avoid this type of networking in cultivating a successful business networking model.

Just what are the hallmarks of a scorched-earth networker? Experience has shown me that this type of networker...

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